Inter-Net or Inter-Nos?

by Irene Schiff

"I have so many friends, but I don't know anyone." How to communicate in the years 2000?


Internet is the language of computer science, a universal web communication; "inter nos" is latin and means "between us".
So much time has passed since people spoke Latin! ...once upon a time, a long time ago, the pleasure and the necessity to be with family and friends at home (or once in the barn) or at an inn or tavern... It seems like the beginning of a fable though yesterday and the day before yesterday, it was the reality. And today? Today, many people have a computer or some other electronic device with which they can connect with whomever has the same device, wherever in the world, at whatever moment. Unfortunately, people often assume that everyone knows how to use these tools without giving a thought to providing adequate training. This is all very interesting and practical, but if those are not used correctly, one can risk transforming social relations into virtual ones: "I have so many friends, but I don't know anyone" can sound absurd but true. Personal, direct relationships and physical contact are of great importance and can be accompanied by electronic relationships, but not substituted by them. In Italy, it is not yet necessary to open rehab clinics for people with computer addictions like there are in other countries where some young people spend their time in front of the monitor where they may end up having only electronic communications. Italians have in their genes the pleasure to spend time with people, and have good meals in good company (what goes on virtually will never be comparable). In other words, an email is very useful, many people can read it at the same time when I want to, but meeting in the office's corridors office and drinking coffee together holds another kind of flavour. Electronic tools are essential; the added-value of a person is priceless.


Test: Is your communication real or virtual?

1) In 5 seconds, answer this question:
Ten ships that are alike take 10 days to consume 10 fuel tanks. How many days does one ship need to consume one fuel tank?

a) 1
b) 10
c) 100

2) What do you think motivates an alpinist to climb a mountain?
a) a dream
b) courage
c) a challenge

3) You wake up in the morning and:
a) you tranquilly make breakfast
b) you listen to the news
c) you think about the program of the day

4) To change plans at the last moment for you it is:
a) irritating
b) amusing
c) normal

5) To you, numbered tables are:
a) something else to throw in the wastebasket
b) one of your strengths
c) something that needs to be done

6) You are walking on a street that bears the name of someone you never heard of:
a) you do research to learn who it was
b) you remain indifferent
c) you would like to know more, but you won't find out

7) What is your favourite number:
a) 8
b) 73
c) 149

8) Among the following cities: Paris, London, Frankfurt, Prague, Madrid, which one would you reject?
a) Paris
b) Frankfurt
c) Prague

 

9) When you hear the word "web", you think:
a) confusion
b) a spider
c) a game in a labyrinth

10) In a herd, you would like to be:
a) the Sheppard dog
b) the sheep with the most beautiful hair
c) the black sheep

11) Your boss wants to speak with you: his news will be...
a) lovely
b) bad
c) neither lovely nor bad

12) The word "mouse" makes you think of:
a) Mickey
b) a snout, a face
c) a museum

13) You have no romantic link and your friends are preparing you a blind date with someone you don't know; you think:
a) let's do it!
b) why not?
c) absolutely not

14) What do you associate with the word "missile"?
a) danger
b) speed
c) space

15) You think that to learn an aboriginal language would be:
a) not too difficult
b) difficult
c) very difficult

SCORE
Question A B C

Question A B C
1) 2 3 1
2) 1 2 3
3) 1 3 2
4) 1 3 2
5) 1 3 2
6) 3 1 2
7) 1 2 3
8) 1 3 2
9) 1 3 2
10) 3 2 1
11) 3 1 2
12) 3 1 2
13) 2 3 1
14) 1 2 3
15) 3 2 1

EXPLANATIONS

FROM 45 TO 36 POINTS:
TELEMATICS

You are really up to date and computers are your daily bread; you spend a lot of time on the computer and not only for your work. It seems that you are in a race to have a large number of friends, but how many real "meat and bones" friends do you have? Blogs and chats are very important to keep contact with others, but the personal contact is so much more important. How about turning the computer off, and getting out of the house to take a walk with someone?

FROM 35 TO 25 POINTS:
USEFUL TOOLS

Witch hunts are not for you; you use the computer science, aware of its advantages and limits; you use it as a mean, not as an end. You know how to alternate your electronic and personal relationships and even if at home you have a computer and personal games, their use is not your first thought. An evening of conversations or games with family or friends: that is still a priority for you.

FROM 24 TO 15 POINTS:
HOSTILITY

Sometimes, you see the computer as a magic box able to swallow you up in an unknown world; or you're scared that if you hit a wrong key everything will blow up. If you don't want to go near it or try trusting it a little, you need to think that this is the present as well as the future of our society; the earlier you get used to it the better.
P.S. And don't worry, no missile is going to be launched if you press the wrong key... unless you work at the NASA.

Picture - Person climbing a mountain

Image - Table with number from 1 to 100

Picture - Sheep herd

Image - Mickey Mouse

Picture - Inuit boy

Image - Betty Book sitting at a computer

Image - Man embracing a computer

Image - Woman shoothing a computer

Image - Man kicking a computer

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