It is possible to be unfaithful in
love, in work, and in friendship. It is possible to be unfaithful for fun,
for money, out of revenge, out of curiosity or weakness, or to get away
from the routine. There are also periods during the year where betrayals
increase as well as those done for specific reasons. In the fall, those
furtive looks of complicity are exchanged particulary to compensate states
of boredom, melancholy and depression. During the winter, a greater number
of betrayals are observed in the work environment, and in the spring,
people of a certain age seem to be more eager to experience while younger
ones are most often the object of this experience. And in the summer? Ah,
that special season, going out at night, the clothing being more daring,
the sense of freedom, the partner being far away, or being in different
places than usual... all of this contributes to "create temptations". It
has nothing to do with betrayals for sentimental reasons, they are rather
the result of amorous feelings. In these cases, it can be the pure
pleasure of conquest to increase collection items, or it can be a
search for answers to unconscious questions like "am I still attractive,
am I still capable of seducing someone"? There are so many extenuating
circumstances, and justifications....
When one is unfaithful, not only
is it painful for the other person, but there is no definite explanation
to what could have motivated us to do it. Finding out if we are still
attractive, if we are still in love with our partner, if we have some
worth at work, is better done by some introspection, by exchanging with
loved ones or experts. Otherwise, the alternative is to repeat the
experience again, looking for answers that will never come, whatever they
are. Let's find out if we prefer to be told "I like you" or "I trust
you".
Test: How
faithful are you?
1) In a soccer game, you prefer
to be:
a) in forward position
b) in defense position
c)
the referee
2) Your partner tells you he or
she will come home late, you think:
a) he or she has work to
catch up
b) he or she is going out with friends
c) he or she is
hiding something
3) They are offering you a huge
promotion, but you have to change your political ideas:
a) you
accept immediately
b) you accept unwillingly
c) you
refuse
4) A beautiful person is
falling in love with you, you think:
a) everyone will envy
me!
b) will that person have a good character?
c) everyone will want
to take that person away from me!
5) You are invited on a
date:
a) you go to the hairdresser/barber
b) you buy new
clothes
c) you are thinking about what you are going to say
6) A luscious
fruit:
a) strawberries with cream
b) the first fruits of
the season
c) an exotic fruit
7) After work you go home and
think:
a) finally some peacefulness
b) what work will I
have to do tomorrow
c) I'd like to go out for dinner
8) Your partner is calling you
by another name; you think:
a) he or she is cheating on
me
b) it's only a mistake
c) best to look into that
9) Your colleagues tell you a
piece of gossip about someone that you dislike; you:
a) tell
no one
b) tell a few people
c) tell everyone
10) You have to participate in
a comedy, you prefer the part:
a) of the hunk/smashing
woman
b) the comic character
c) the clever character
11) On vacation, someone is
flirting with you while your partner is in the city:
a) you
play the game
b) you enjoy it, but you don't accept
c) you
immediately say that you are with someone
12) About the furniture
arrangement in your home:
a) you often change it around
b)
you always leave it as it is
c) you only change the
furnishings
13) What
sentence do you prefer:
a) faithful through the
centuries
b) use it or lose it
c) nothing wrong with
trying
14) Friends are:
a)
few but good
b) enough
c) many and some
15) Collecting stuff:
a) you never had any collections
b) only a few
c) you
collect everything
SCORE
| Question
|
A |
B |
C |
| 1) |
3 |
2 |
2 |
| 2) |
1 |
2 |
3 |
| 3) |
3 |
2 |
1 |
| 4) |
3 |
1 |
2 |
| 5) |
3 |
3 |
1 |
| 6) |
1 |
2 |
3 |
| 7) |
2 |
1 |
3 |
| 8) |
3 |
1 |
2 |
| 9) |
1 |
2 |
3 |
| 10) |
2 |
1 |
3 |
| 11) |
3 |
2 |
1 |
| 12) |
3 |
1 |
2 |
| 13) |
1 |
3 |
2 |
| 14) |
1 |
2 |
3 |
| 15) |
3 |
2 |
1 |
EXPLANATIONS
FROM 45 TO 36
POINTS:
ENJOY TODAY...
...because tomorrow may
never come. You are the one who says this and you tend to justify every
action of yours because you are convinced you are worth more in the eyes
of others. But, have you asked yourself "worth in what sense"?
FROM 35 TO 25 POINTS:
THE IMPORTANT THING IS TRUST
You know that
problems can always occur, but you also know that they have to be dealt
with and, preferably, together. For you, the real achievement is to look
at yourself in the mirror and see a sincere and courageous person.
FROM 24 TO 15
POINTS:
A BIT OF
FLEXIBILITY
We all agree with principles and moral righteousness,
but let's not exaggerate. A quick and clever remark, a double-entendre, a
friendly relationship between colleagues are not mortal sins, they can
even lighten up the atmosphere without necessarily... turning words into
action!
HIPPOTHERAPY
The activity is still ongoing
and getting support from schools.
In the next issue, we will talk about
interesting and pleasant visits to schools "Leonardo da Vinci" and
"Pepoli-Rolandino".
