From Receiving to
Giving by Irene
Schiff It is
possible to go against the
current. |
In
a world like this, Nothing more to do, I've got a song to feel alive, It's
you...
These lyrics from A
Song to Feel Alive (Il mio canto libero) by Lucio Battisti inspire us to
observe how today's relationships between people have
changed and how the fear of being rejected by others motivates us
to adopt the "credo"
that happiness
comes from having things. We are no longer Homo Sapiens but Homo Consumens. Too often
do
we find in objects, in
owning things, the solution to a feeling of emptiness, that
dark
empty space that we feel within us and that we try to fill in by possessing
things.
We also often feel unable to
have a particular object based on our own ability. The Homo Faber is no
longer within us because not only do we not create the things we need, but
we doubt our own ability or refuse to make the effort necessary to build
relationships and commit ourselves to others. And so from a I
want to have we even go on to a more imperative give
me. On the contrary, it is important that these relationships
be based not on the exchange of objects,
but rather on communication with heart, mind, passion and reason. And
here again the notes of the Song
to Feel Alive are written not on a staff, but in our life,
giving it the right beat and the most beautiful harmony. The music is
within us and we can convey it to others only by going from receiving
to giving:
tell me about you, talk to me about your ideas and your emotions and I
will tell you about mine because I know that even if you don't agree you
will try to understand. 1)
In your home there is a small bed or a
couch;
a friend asks you to stay over for the night: 2)
"You will
reap what you sow" is a saying that is:
3)
Your friends have organized a party but they forgot to invite
you: 4)
You are very busy and your child is asking to play with you; you
answer: 5)
You can't stand your mother-in-law and it's her
birthday: 6)
In the company of friends, there is a conversation about another friend
who has succeeded well; 7)
Someone asks you for a favour which requires a little
effort: |
8)
A colleague seems upset: 9)
You have doubts about the faithfulness of your
partner: 10)
In a train, an older person keeps telling you about his or her
youth: 11)
A bit of perfume: 12)
You have overcome a difficult challenge: 13)
Your boss criticizes you; the day after you: 14)
You had a bad day; you think: 15)
To get married means: SCORE
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Photo - A rose
in two hands
Photo - Boy and
girl in a park
Photo -
Sculpture of a couple EXPLANATIONS FROM
45 TO 36 POINTS: Feelings are
important to you, as well as understanding and listening the other, interpret the other's silences. People
appreciate you and like you a lot for this, but you could be hurt by
someone who does not think like you or could even take advantage of this
trait of character. Even the bravest soldiers have
protection! You believe on
interpersonal relationships based on dialog, but you are not indifferent
to more earthly social messages. You have many friends and you adapt to
their personality; you are very good or also very
crafty? FROM
24 TO 15 POINTS: If you had to
choose between a philosophy or business course, you would choose the
latter not because you are selfish but because it's a question of
priority. You first want to satisfy your material needs and after you will
certainly not refuse friendships and the affection they provide. And why
not, this Christmas, try to reverse this order? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Photo - Small
toys of people in line |